Monday, March 30, 2009
Annoyance vs. Gospel vs. Love
Situation Number 1:
It was pretty crowded. We got seats along the low wall next to 2 moms and their 3 little kids and a baby. The little girls kept coming over to us and looking at us.. and ..the moms were doing nothing about it. They were in their own worlds eating their lunches. The kids would go over to other tables and also were giving high fives to some fire fighters in line. Some Petco employees came in and sat down at a table on the other side of the moms and kids. The littlest girl went over there and she leaned on the lady and then was resting on her shoulder and it was like.. these kids had NO SENSE of personal boundaries. I was really looking down my nose at those moms. To allow their kids to continuously invade our space and interrupt us and others and for the moms to not care. To me it was wrong and inconvenient.
Here are my thoughts:
I had heard once that America does a bad job of applying "Love your neighbor as yourself." We teach our kids not to talk to strangers (and while I understand the reasoning.. There are two sides to be considered). We say, "Hi. How are you?" and all responses are "Good." We are offended when someone invades our personal space. We are unfriendly. We do what is convenient for ourselves. We cater to ourselves and please ourselves. We do not reach out. Was it really that big of a deal that the kids were by us while we ate? Was it really wrong for them to go visit the Petco people? Was it wrong for the little girl to lean on the Petco lady? Was it wrong that I got offended? Why was I convicted? Was it wrong for me not to say "hi" to the kids as they stared? When I choose to get offended or even not so much offended but ANNOYED I begin to one by one shut down my opportunities to give the gospel. The gospel is about strangers. The gospel is uncomfortable. If I'm bugged by a 3 year old while I eat my tacos something is WRONG. I prayed and asked the Lord to forgive me. I will do better next time loving strangers. I will do better to not fall into the American Dream. I will choose to love my neighbor. I want to make sure I see them in Heaven and not worry about such petty things as having a bad lunch experience.
Romans 13:8 - 10
Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. 9 For the commandments, "You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet," and any other commandment, are summed up in this word: "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." 10Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Menchie's
Pick 1 or 2 or 3 or 12 of their 12 flavors: I chose cake batter only. So good. Adam got cake batter swirled with cookies and cream. There is also a little chilled bar that has fruits and refrigerated items..
Mix it together with the 'snackage.' I got heath bar pieces, oreo pieces and fruity pebbles. Adam got cookie dough, cheesecake and oreos.
Then you eat it and when you are all done you get on a scale and they weigh you. If the scale rolls around to YUM, then you get your yogurt for free. Ok not really, but that would be really cool. You place your concoction on the scale...
and pay 39 cents per oz.Adam after he ate his yogurt.. It was THAT good.
Lauren got a free tatoo that Jeff kindly helped her put on. It was her first one ever.
Then a Dad and his daughter(s?) and his daughter(s?) friends came in carrying this little "dog." They were stopped right away and told their "dog" would need to wait outside. The girls were young-ish and we could see that that was gonna put them in a predicament so I offered to hold their "dog" while they got their yogurt. Adam protected me and kept me company. The "dog" trembled in my arms the entire time.
This is the bonding between the "dog" and the girls. And my cool new zebra purse. See it?
Friday, March 27, 2009
Why Do I Do This to Myself?
Drywood Termite fecal pellets, the corn nuts I'm currently eating and Australian Stick Bug eggs. I am way grossed out. They all look way too similar?!
Proverbs 27
Proverbs 27 (English Standard Version)
1Do not boast about tomorrow,
for you do not know what a day may bring.
2Let another praise you, and not your own mouth;
a stranger, and not your own lips.
3A stone is heavy, and sand is weighty,
but a fool’s provocation is heavier than both.
4Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming,
but who can stand before jealousy?
5 Better is open rebuke
than hidden love.
6Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
profuse are the kisses of an enemy.
7One who is full loathes honey,
but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.
8Like a bird that strays from its nest
is a man who strays from his home.
9 Oil and perfume make the heart glad,
and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.
10Do not forsake your friend and your father’s friend,
and do not go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity.
Better is a neighbor who is near
than a brother who is far away.
11 Be wise, my son, and make my heart glad,
that I may answer him who reproaches me.
12 The prudent sees danger and hides himself,
but the simple go on and suffer for it.
13 Take a man’s garment when he has put up security for a stranger,
and hold it in pledge when he puts up security for an adulteress.
14Whoever blesses his neighbor with a loud voice,
rising early in the morning,
will be counted as cursing.
15 A continual dripping on a rainy day
and a quarrelsome wife are alike;
16to restrain her is to restrain the wind
or to grasp oil in one’s right hand.
17Iron sharpens iron,
and one man sharpens another.
18 Whoever tends a fig tree will eat its fruit,
and he who guards his master will be honored.
19As in water face reflects face,
so the heart of man reflects the man.
20 Sheol and Abaddon are never satisfied,
and never satisfied are the eyes of man.
21 The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold,
and a man is tested by his praise.
22 Crush a fool in a mortar with a pestle
along with crushed grain,
yet his folly will not depart from him.
23 Know well the condition of your flocks,
and give attention to your herds,
24for riches do not last forever;
and does a crown endure to all generations?
25 When the grass is gone and the new growth appears
and the vegetation of the mountains is gathered,
26 the lambs will provide your clothing,
and the goats the price of a field.
27 There will be enough goats’ milk for your food,
for the food of your household
and maintenance for your girls.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Parenting Break Down..
One young boy approached me on his bike and said, "Who are you?" As I kept walking he rode his bike beside me and I said, "I'm Erin." Then a little girl approached on her bike. "WHO are you?" she said. And the boy said, "Yeah, who the heck are you?"
My first thought was along the lines of thinking it was pretty rude for a 6 year old to say 'heck.' I told them both I was Erin. The little girl was like, "No waaay. That is sooo not Erin." (There is another Erin on our street, I figured they were thinking I was saying I was her.) I said, "I'm not the Erin you know, I'm a different Erin and I live in a different house."
"Who are you?" the boy said for the hundredth time. At this point I was little annoyed.
I had reached my destination driveway so I turned to walk up the driveway and the little boy rode his bike up the driveway, challenged me with his gaze and said, "Who the HECK are you, anyway?" At that point I paused, looked him the eyes, and said, "You are not (*shaking my head*) allowed to talk to me that way." I walked past him and knocked on the door.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
A Brief (brief!) Thought
1.) Preach Jesus Christ as Lord
2.) Be a servant for Jesus' sake.
3.) Shine out of darkness (out of not in)
4.) The (all-surpassing) power to do this is given to us from God.
Do not be mediocre. The walls you build around yourself are not necessary. Staying inverted is not an option.
Oh the Things I See
I'm always kinda fascinated as I walk the pathway from my car to the entrance at work. There are always snails and lately there have been HUGE moths over by a water drain spout from the roof. Anyway. Wasn't expecting that whole thing this morning.
Friday, March 20, 2009
Things
Today is mine and Adam's 7 month dating anniversary. A lot has happened in 7 months. Seems we've really turned a corner recently and God is so good to us always. We are both seeing each other grow a lot and it's exciting and encouraging. Adam's trip to Jackson Hole really revived him. I had a chance to get in some good time with the Lord since there was some down time for me. So we are definitely coming off of our hardest month so far but it has BY FAR been our best month because the results and changes have been so good and immediate. I really love him and I'm really looking forward to what God will choose to do through us. Keep us in your prayers ok? The Lord has been teaching us so much and we want to be faithful with it and keep growing.
Adam said we are going to Pei Wei for dinner. I haven't been there in ages. In Asian food, curry is a frequent ingredient. What are the differences in all the curries? The only one I'm familiar with is the curry you put in that broccoli/chicken casserole with cream of mushroom soup. But it's not ANY sort of spicy and the Asian ones are always noted as spicy. I really would like to try them, but I get scared.
Menchie's in Canyon Country is open. Hopefully we will have Bible Study there tomorrow, or visit it before or after Bible study. Or something. (Or both.)
Seriously, read Romans. (Esp Chap 8) And pray for Jackson Hole.
Chip(otle)
Thursday, March 19, 2009
I Talked to an Angel Once.. (Full Bloom)
Full Bloom seemed cute. Filled with items for your home, it was a store that pleaded with women to enter. As you walked inside it smelled so delicious. I will never forget it. The aroma of candles, mixed with flowers, eucalyptus, and everything else that combines to make the aroma of those stores like a sparkle of freshness when you open the door and the air bursts against your face! There were usually pots and bins of flowers outside, rustic iron pieces sitting outside the front door seemed to beckon you inside. There was a crackled Martha Who? sign in blue and white hanging above the cash register. I had been in Full Bloom once. I felt at ease there and tried to spend a day as a volunteer worker for a school assignment in 1999 to which the owner promptly refused.
“Why don’t you apply at Ralph’s?” Dad said. “I do NOT want to work in a grocery store, Dad.” “Well, you really have no choice. You need to fill out an application and turn it in. Your brother worked there and it’s close enough that you can walk.” “How am I supposed to walk there, in the summer, and not be a sweaty mess?” “You need to turn in an application by Thursday.” I turned in an application Thursday.
A week went by. Dad told me I needed to follow up on the application. I did. I ended up with a lame interview. I was basically told, “Don’t call us, we’ll call you.” I think I probably sighed with relief. I never heard from them again. In the meantime I had started to wind down my first year of community college. As a High School student you can attend the Junior College free of tuition charges, you just pay enrollment fees and for books. I decided to apply at Full Bloom. Wearing my ankle length denim skirt I went inside and asked for an application. I filled it out and returned it the next day. A week later I stopped back in. I found out the owner’s name was Rhonda. We chatted a bit. She ended up telling me that she thought my application was great, but that she wouldn’t be able to hire me. Rhonda’s sister was sending her niece down for the summer and that meant her niece would be helping in the store. We talked about how I planned on attending The Master’s College once I got some Gen Ed done at COC. We talked about how I played the violin and about my church. I was beginning to think that it really was too bad I wasn’t going be able to work there. Not only did the store smell good, the owner was cool! Rhonda said, “We’re gonna put a sticker on your application so that next time we hire we can give you a call.”
Summer came and went. I somehow managed to be out of the house enough with babysitting that I wasn’t forced to pound the pavement looking for a job.
One day, in early October, I had just gotten home from COC. It was a Friday. The phone rang. I picked it up, “Hello?” The lady on the other side said, “Hi. Is this Erin?” “Yes, it is,” I said. “Hi Erin, this is Kathy, I’m calling from Full Bloom.” “Oh, hey!” “Erin, I’m reviewing your application and I was wondering if I could ask you a few questions.” “Sure!” “Well, I see here that you haven’t had any previous work experience so I was just wondering if you’ve done any babysitting?” “I have done tons (!) of babysitting. I’ve been babysitting for the past 7 years.” “That’s great. Also, I am wondering if you are good with computers?” “I am pretty good with computers. I can do all the basics on them, but if it were to crash I wouldn’t know what needed to be done.” “Ok, sounds good. Erin, are you free to come in Monday for an interview?” “YES! I am! I get out of class at 12:00.” “Ok, why don’t you come in at 1:00pm on Monday.” “That sounds great. See you then!” And we hung up.
I got out of class Monday. Headed home. Ate a sandwich. Changed once more into my ankle length denim skirt and a nice shirt. I’m sure I brushed and re-curled my nice thick bangs. At 12:45 Mom drove me down the hill (I didn’t want to get sweaty for my interview). I strolled inside. Like usual, it smelled so good in there. Music was playing, breeze was blowing. The lady from the register greeted me. “Hello,” she said. “Hi,” I answered. “My name is Erin. I’m here for my interview.” She paused and looked at me and smiled, “That’s funny, Rhonda didn’t say anything about an interview.” “Oh, I didn’t talk to Rhonda, I scheduled this with Kathy.” “Ok. Hmm.. We don’t have anyone working here named Kathy, besides Rhonda is the owner so she is the one who would be doing any interviews. Let me just give her a quick call and see what’s up.” Cindi called Rhonda and began to explain the situation. Rhonda remembered me from the chats we had earlier in the year. Cindi handed the phone to me. “Hi Rhonda!” “Erin! Hi! I hear you are there for an interview.” “Yeah, I am.” “Erin, I didn’t call you.” “I know! I know you didn’t, because the person who called me was Kathy.” “We don’t have anyone by the name of Kathy and never have. Erin, do me a favor. I really liked you so I might have given your name to Lisa over at Offspring. Why don’t you run down there and see if they were the ones who gave you a call.” “Ok, I’ll do that. The person I talked to said they were calling from Full Bloom though, but I’ll go check.” “Ok, then call me back. I’m so curious about this!”
I ran over to Offspring. It was just three doors down. As I popped my head inside I said to Lisa, “This is actually gonna sound weird, but do you have an interview scheduled for 1:00pm today?” “No, I don’t.” “I got a call for an interview at Full Bloom, but Rhonda and I don’t know where the call came from and she thought maybe she gave my number to you and the interview was here.” I smiled.
As crazy as the story sounded, Rhonda, Cindi, and Lisa, didn’t doubt my word. They didn’t think I was loony. They were all just as curious as I was. I told Lisa thank you then ran back over to Full Bloom. “It wasn’t her,” I said to Cindi. “It wasn’t her,” Cindi repeated into the phone. She handed the phone back to me. “Erin?” “Yes?” “This is so crazy!” “I know!” “Erin, do you believe in angels?” “Yes.” “Because I think that’s who called you.” “Wow.” “And listen to this. I am sitting here in my office. I have been so worried. I just signed a lease to open a shop at the mall for the Christmas season, and I was just going crazy wondering how I was supposed to get that store ready to go and who to hire for the extra shifts we’re now going to have.” “Well, I’m free,” I said. “Do this for me, leave your number with Cindi, and the hours you are available to work and when I get in to the store I’ll look it over and give you a call, because after all this, I’m a little afraid NOT to hire you.”
I ended up getting hired and thus began my relationship with Full Bloom, Rooms & Blooms, Rhonda and Donnie, Cindi and Laina. Flower arrangements, topiaries, Trapp candles, tea towels, painting and crackling and distressing furniture and wreath making. Interior Design and shabby chic. The Mart in Downtown. Jeb Loy Nichols – Tom Petty – Lyle Lovett – BB King(ain't nobody here but us chickens) – Ella Fitzgerald – John Mayer and Nora Jones. Floor moves after closing. CHRISTMAS DECORATIONS. Oasis, bow making, fluffing, filling pots. Pricing, opening and closing, reconciling the cash register. Parakeets (to me, the top of the parakeet's heads smelled like syrup.). Feng Shui, “Erin, we hang a mirror above the register to create proper flow.” Great memories and soooo much learned. I still visit with Rhonda. She has hired me back when I’ve been in between other jobs. When I put in my 2 weeks notice 10-1/2 months ago, she said, “You’ll be back Erin, you never really leave.”
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
We Sing the Greatness/How Great is our God
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Question
I'm wearing a green dress. No one can pinch me.
Yesterday, after work, I met my friend Susan at Ross. She has taken a teaching position for the next couple months for a teacher going out on maternity leave. In light of this new job, she really wanted a cool bag to carry her books, etc. in. There is a great bag at Target. (Let me see if I can find a pic..)
Monday, March 16, 2009
Finesse Fail..
When I was washing my hair this morning I opened up my bottle of Finesse Shampoo and squirted some into my hands and proceeded to lather up my hair when I began to catch a wift of something hinting at dirty/soured dishwasher sponge stinky. I was like, "Is that my shampoo?" and I sniffed the bit still left in my hand and thought I could smell the stink. So then I grabbed a handful of my hair and smelled it and caught the stink! For some reason, the cap on my Finesse bottle lets water in and I think over the last couple months the water must have soured the shampoo.. OR SOMETHING.
Friday, March 13, 2009
Money Saver(s)
Also, if you want to save money. Get rid of text messages. There. I said it. I upped my plan today because my dear Adam does not share Verizon with me so we do not have unlimited InNetwork texting. Right now, I can afford it, but I'm just saying.... It would be a great montly money saver.
P.S. I found the BEST salad from Trader Joe's, but who really cares? =)
And For Some Laughs..
(You may have to listen twice to clearly understand what he says. It's pretty funny!)
Romans Questions
1.) What is the gospel? Romans 1:16-17
I am not ashamed of the gospel, because it is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes: first for the Jew, then for the Gentile. 1For in the gospel a righteousness from God is revealed, a righteousness that is by faith from first to last, just as it is written: "The righteous will live by faith."
2.) What is the first step taken towards walking away from the Lord?: Romans 1:21
For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.
3.) God's kindness is for what? Romans 2:4
Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God's kindness leads you toward repentance?
4.) Who is declared righteous? Romans 2:13For it is not those who hear the law who are righteous in God's sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous.
5.) When I neglect God's Word what happens? Romans 2:23-24 You who brag about the law, do you dishonor God by breaking the law? As it is written: "God's name is blasphemed among the Gentiles because of you."
6.) Who does God praise? Romans 2:28-29 A man is not a Jew if he is only one outwardly, nor is circumcision merely outward and physical. No, a man is a Jew if he is one inwardly; and circumcision is circumcision of the heart, by the Spirit, not by the written code. Such a man's praise is not from men, but from God.
7.) Romans 3:5-8 But if our unrighteousness brings out God's righteousness more clearly, what shall we say? That God is unjust in bringing his wrath on us? (I am using a human argument.) Certainly not! If that were so, how could God judge the world? Someone might argue, "If my falsehood enhances God's truthfulness and so increases his glory, why am I still condemned as a sinner?" Why not say—as we are being slanderously reported as saying and as some claim that we say—"Let us do evil that good may result"? Their condemnation is deserved. To quote my good friend Sarah "Who am I to expect fairness? Fair for me is Hell, and so all in Christ is grace. Easier said than done right?"
Hangers
Albert J. Parkhouse, an employee of Timberlake Wire and Novelty Company in Jackson, Michigan, created a coat hanger in 1903, in response to co-workers’ complaints of too few coat hooks. He bent a piece of wire into two ovals with the ends twisted together to form a hook. Parkhouse patented his invention, but it is not known if he profited from it.
Schuyler C. Hulett received a patent in 1932 for an improvement which involved cardboard tubes screwed onto the upper and lower portions to prevent wrinkles in freshly laundered clothes.
Three years later Elmer D Rogers created a hanger with a tube on the lower bar which is still used today.
Thomas Jefferson invented the the early wooden coat hanger, the hideaway bed, the calendar clock and the dumbwaiter.
More information on the specifics of the first invention can be found here. It's pretty interesting.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
P.S.
Random
When I leave my lights on and open my car door an alarm goes "DaBedaBEEP DaBedaBEEP DaBedaBEEP" I'm sure it has saved me a battery over the years.
Because Hillsong Changed My Life..#2
My current favorite: At The Cross
"You tore the veil. You made a way. When you said that 'it is done'."
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Things in Three
My car is in the shop. It has been having trouble starting for a while. I had my mechanic look at it and he suggested that we start with replacing a sensor. (I just think mechanics must laugh sometimes when people try to explain to them what is wrong with their car.) I still noticed that it seemed my car was having a rough time starting. Yesterday when I got off work I went to start my car and it wouldn't do it. It tried and tried and was so close, but the engine wouldn't flip over (or whatever it was supposed to do). I tried for a while. A guy from work came out and had me pop the hood. He said it looked to be that the engine wasn't getting a spark. We tried a couple more times and nothing. So I called AAA. They said they would have a tow truck to me by 5:30. At 5:20 they called and said the tow would be there by 6:20. At 5:55 I got a call saying the tow truck would be at least another hour. At that point I had to figure out.. Should I leave the car and have them tow in the morning, or wait the hour and have them still come? I finally decided to have them tow in the morning. I decided to try turning my car on one final time before having my dad drive to get me. My car turned on! So I drove it straight to Kiwi Motors. John was still there so I filled him in. He says he thinks it's the ignitor. He'll give it a look and give me a call today.
God had a lesson for me to learn though.
A gal from work, offered for me to sit in her car with her with the A/C on and watch a movie while I waited for my tow truck. It was such an example to me of serving others and of being selfless.
Monday, March 9, 2009
My Poor Bathroom
"Well Dad is up there starting work now. He said the floor is a mess!! He is surprised it didn't leak through the ceiling into the laundry room. He is going to put the toilet in your bathtub for now. We shall see what the next steps will be."
Officially booted out of my shower now too. Hello, Guest Bathroom.
Update #1:
"He thinks it was definitely leaking around the toilet seal somehow. He is taking the floor out now, so we shall see what is next. The wood is all rotten arounbd where the toilet was supposed to be sealed."
All together now, "eeeewww."
Update #2:
He is stopping for now. He wants to call Terry K to get some input on the best way to repair the floor around the toilet. It will come together.
(Notice my color choices? Sometimes I offend even my own self.)
Friday, March 6, 2009
My (Safety) Buddy
I Miss Him Already...
Jackson Hole
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Office
Today he told me he was losing his mind. I ventured a guess.. This is what I said,
"I know what happened! You sneezed and half your brain shot into your ear, thus you are missing half your brain and are deaf because it's clogging up your ear."
I can't believe I said that to my boss! I told him half his brain was in his ear! But he laughed and it was some good comic relief. Poor guy.
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Why Wednesday's are Delightful
1) It is ad day in the mail. So I receive all the ads from the grocery stores as well as the PennySaver. I get to look at all the fresh produce and deals. And dream of my own home.
2) Wednesday is date night with my grandparent's. I've been doing this for maybe a year now. It's great! I get off work and head over to their place. It gives us time to talk and catch up. It gives them something to look forward to. Recently Grandma has been trying out new recipes which has been a lot of fun. We always have a good time. We eat and we watch King of Queens and Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune. This is the one thing in my schedule that has not changed. One thing I don't want to let go. I love this time with them. We have great conversation. And it gives me a time to relax a bit.
And 3) This particular Wednesday is delightful because I get to spend it with Susan. We are getting lunch at In-n-Out!
And 4) because it rained.
Change #3 and Change #4
There is a lady down at the F branch who I work closely with. She is very knowledgable and very helpful to me in my role up here in Santa Clarita. She's taken a job offer and will be leaving the company this Friday. In light of that I'm losing someone who I've relied on a lot. This change affects me in that I will become the contact between our site and the Local Union. I will be reviewing all paper work, verifying EVERYTHING (details!) and submitting the payments. Lots to keep track of. I will also be doing this for the L B site. If I make a mistake it could end up costing $1,000's when that mistake is found in future audits. When I went through everything today and submitted the payment I think I felt my blood pressure lessen. I made it through round one.
Hopefully this doesnt happen because of me:
Change #4:
I think I might be moving out.